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Dear ladies!

We hope that this information will help you to get acquainted with a man. Here you will find practical advises about:
  • how to write the first letter;
  • what to do to have perfect photos taken;
  • to be an interesting interlocutor.


    Write the first letter:

  • Be active and determined. Take a step forward. Do not wait until somebody writes to you, write to them first. You will not waste time and you will have an opportunity to make a choice by yourself.
  • Set a goal. First of all determine for yourself what kind of man you would like to get acquainted with, preferable features of character, what you value in a man first of all.
  • The first letter must be short but informative. Don't begin with banal patterns like "I'm so tired of being alone:.", "I dream to get married:.."You had better tell a bit about yourself and your interests. Before sending, read the letter carefully and thoughtfully, check for mistakes, and be sure that the letter sounds honest and sincere. Ask yourself whether you would like to write a answer to such a letter.
  • Many men respond only to the letters with a photo, so be sure that a perfect picture of you is attached to your profile. It would be good if there were several photos.


    Study what way to have photos taken for Web

    There is a saying that "Men love by their eyes." You should not neglect this fact, because when men see web-page where there are a great number of small pictures placed one could easily be lost. That is why we decided to share some ruses with you to help attract his attention towards your picture.

    Portrait
  • It's important to make a good portrait (take a close-up of your face). Your look must be very expressive and clear enough to distinguish color of your eyes. Don't put on glasses, even if they fit you. Try to smile, despite the fact that you feel extremely sad at heart. A smile is considered to be an essential element of Western culture. You will receive less letters if you are not smiling. It is important not to put your problems on potential fiances. A good portrait is a successful beginning. Say "Good-bye" to the photographer only when you get a really good picture.
  • Take a photo of your rested and suntanned face, in any case it will be of use sooner or later and you'll look the best (at least on the photos).
  • Don't laugh at the top of you lungs: there will be only a black whole and a couple of narrow eyes on the photo.
  • Don't laugh at the top of you lungs: there will be only a black whole and a couple of narrow eyes on the photo.
  • Refuse flatly to look at the bird, which " might fly out". There will be no bird but instead of natural face expressions you will have the look of overwhelmed by headlight hare.

    Figure:
  • Refuse from the idea to show you in the best foreshortening: you'll never guess about photographer's intentions.
  • Stand in half-turn, especially if you wear trousers, tight skirt or other clothes telling about your anatomy: overweight of hips will be not so evident on three-quarter snap than on full-length one.
  • Ask the photographer to sit down a bit. Shooting from a low point can make the figure look slim.
  • Raise up your nose! If you stand hanging your head you'll get a double chin and huge dark circles under the eyes.
  • Raise up your nose! If you stand hanging your head you'll get a double chin and huge dark circles under the eyes.
  • Forget about the photographer, objective and laughing friends behind the camera. The more natural you are, the better photo will be taken. It's good when the photos are not taken in bright daylight: The best lighting of the day is early in the morning or at twilight. At best you can stand in the shadow: Tthe best way to display the shortcomings is to have the photos taken under bright sun shining.
  • It's good when the photos are not taken in bright daylight: The best lighting of the day is early in the morning or at twilight. At best you can stand in the shadow: the best way to display the shortcomings is to have the photos taken under bright sun shining.
  • Pay attention to the background: you must be 100% sure of your perfect look to have the photos taken against a background of a red door. Be ready that if a photographer stands against bright green wall your face will reflect this color for sure.
  • Avoid a black color. Even if this color perfectly suits you, it looks flatly and destroys your figure on the photo. Try to wear the cloths, which underline your advantages and sexuality (don't be scared of this word, it means that you are attractive for males). A woman in dress attracts a man more than in trousers. Shoes look much better than boots.

    Number of photos:
    On your personal page we recommend you to place 3 pictures (max 7 ones). One of them is a portrait, all the rest are the pictures where you are striking different poses (full-length, sitting, ling, half face, full face) and in different styles (office, at home, tempting). Try to choose proper clothes for every photo, then your personal page will be various and interesting. We do not advise that you to place naked or half-naked photos. However, if you so desire you can send some of such photos in private correspondence.

    Photo scanning:
    It's important not only to have good photos taken but to scan them as well (we recommend GPG-format). Maybe your home scanner and your abilities to work with the pictures will be not enough. Many companies in your city can provide you with scanning service. If you do not have the opportunity to scan your photos, send them to our postal address and the designer at DateXp will add your profile for FREE. Our address: 21021, box 1842 Vinnitsa, UKRAINE (don't' forget to specify your ID at DateXp)


    There are necessary things to be an interesting interlocutor for a man

  • Your letter must be interesting. If he has his own hobbies, tell him your opinion, express interest about it. Ask him to write more about his hobby.
  • Men like to solve the problems, ask him to give you advise, make him think that you are interested in his opinion.
  • Specify for yourself the following: what he likes and dislikes about women, whether you have common points of view about appearance, style of life, career, finances, etc.
  • Men sharply react toward words: Very few men think about the reason of their usage, that's why you should be very careful in choosing words when speaking with a man.
  • Man doesn't remember evil. He is always ready to forgive you everything in spite of all he has told you before.
  • The older man, the more you should think what to say. It's possible to teach a young man but impossible to change an old one.
  • Man is always a little boy, so you should be a careful mother for him, who pets him, treats with indulgence and consoles him.
  • To win man's favour, it is important to make him tell about himself. Don't be in a hurry to open up before his eyes. On any account, do not tell him about your shortcomings.
  • In any case try to appreciate whether there is something special about this man, his life principles and whether you can bear his presence for at least 10 minutes.


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